Sonibonani
October 11, 2008
The last absolute monarchy remaining in Africa is the Kingdom of Swaziland. The rural country is rich in the majesty of its mountainous landscape and deep valley sunsets. Swaziland, one of the few southern African countries to still practice its ancient culture, attracts vacationers all over the world looking to experience the heart of Africa. However, underneath the allure of handcrafted markets, safaris, and skilled women balancing rice on their heads is a dying nation. Swaziland has the lowest life expectancy in the entire world at 31 years old. Swaziland is in the midst of the worst countries affected by the HIV/AIDS epidemic with almost an entire generation wiped out by the virus. The barren land is suffering from a drought drying up all the wells and unable to produce enough food. These devastating conditions brought our team to have an unforgettable, life-changing adventure in Swaziland.
While in Swaziland our team was hosted by different Swazi families from the church we partnered with. I, along with two other team members, stayed with the Mabila family. The home we stayed in would be considered a low standard of life compared to the luxuries of The US. Despite the conditions we were battling; having no running water, two people to a single bed, and rice every night it was one of the richest experiences I have had. The family showed us much love and hospitality. We were welcomed as a part of their family. I quickly bonded with our house mom and especially one of the little girls. They gave me the name Siabonga, which means thank you in Siswati. It is amazing how in such a short amount of time you can grow to deeply love a group of people. The day we had to leave our family it was full of many emotions. They presented us with gifts and wrote us letters. In mine our house mom wrote:
“We were more than just friends we were a family, and not just a family but a happy family. We will really miss your presence here. I for one will always know that beyond the oceans I have family. Distance, time and direction will take you far away from us but our memories will always bring you closer. From my heart to yours: May your heart be filled with everlasting joy, peace, happiness, and above all else the love of God. I will always remember you and am always available to you. Just close your eyes and you will be here with us…”
My time in Africa has been by far the most spontaneous time of my life. One of my best memories was when our team was supposed to be doing practical work, but when we arrived on sight there were too many workers. So of course, the obvious thing to do is to start going house-to-house sharing the gospel. I am not an experience evangelist so this took me a little off guard. The area we were in was mountainous and not easy to get around, even by foot. But we went ahead and started trekking and praying that God would give us the words to say and the houses to go to. When we got to our first house we found a woman outside who greeted us. She invited us into her home. When we were inside we found a man close to death with an unknown illness. The woman told us that they believed in Jesus and asked us to pray for him. We prayed for healing over his body but most importantly for his soul. We gave the family a Siswati Bible and the woman said she would have her children read it to them at night.
The next house we visited was a man and his grandchildren. When he invited us to sit down he asked us if we could help him get running water, food, or money. Unfortunately, we didn’t have the resources to provide these things for him and his family. We, however, told him of the Living Water and how only God can satisfy our needs especially the thirst of our soul. I am not sure those were the best words to tell a man literally thirsty for water, but we listened to him talk, read scripture, prayed, and simply gave him company. He shared with us that sometimes the circumstances around him are so hard that he contemplates suicide but that our presence gave him a renewed hope and strength.
The first thing our team did upon arriving to Mimbekleweni, Swaziland was prayed over a lot of land that belonged to the government. It is a hope of OM’s to start a Medical Clinic on this land, but we must first get permission directly from the king. As you can imagine this is a lofty task. Much to our disappointment the king was in New York City having a meeting with the UN. The mother queen of Swaziland holds equal power as her son so we were still in luck. Three of the leaders from our team spent two days waiting in hopes for the queen to agree to meet with them. For two days they were sent away.
On the third day the queen agreed to meet with them. They explained who they were and asked permission for the lot of land. The queen said that she heard we were in the country and was thankful for our service to her nation. She told them that she herself was a Christian and yes the land could be ours to begin building a med clinic. She also requested that our whole team come to have a meeting with her to pray for her and her country. It was an amazing blessing from God to not only be able to minister to the poorest of poor but literally to the richest and most powerful woman in Swaziland. We sang songs of worship to our King in front of the queen, had a small devotion, and myself and another team member showed her a funny skit that we had been doing for the children of Swaziland. It is our hope that God will use our interaction with the queen to influence godly decisions for the nation.
I am now on the Training Base for the next two weeks. It is refreshing to have some down time to relax and process what God has done. After having time to reflect one of the main points God has been teaching me is that He didn’t bring me to South Africa to change the world (of course God can use me and you for his service) but to fixate me in a place where he can really change my heart and do his work in me. After these next two weeks we begin traveling almost nonstop. We leave the 19th of October for Namibia and return on the 6th of November. After then we will be on base for four days and leave again for three weeks for Durban, South Africa. So, I am thankful for the time of rest we are having now on the base.
Prayer Points
- God would continue to cultivate the hearts of the people we came in contact with.
- The physical needs of the Swazi people would be met as well as the spiritual needs.
- Love and unity amongst our team and wisdom for our leaders.
- That God would continue to teach me to look to Him and trust Him in all seasons and conditions of life.
Love, Adam
Wow! To hear stories like this makes my heart absolutely leap with joy. It means so much more when you come closer to the people and the lives being reached. They become more real than just a “people across the sea” or names on a refrigerator magnet. It’s so wonderful that despite all of the obstacles and struggles, there are still people who have hope or are open to it. And who better to give them hope and to be hopeful in than Jesus Christ. And the news about queen! Well praise the Lord for a ruler who is a believer and is ready and willing to work with you and your other team members. Sometimes its easy to forget the rich when we talk about missions. We think that everything comes easy for them. I pray that together you can provide the medical clinic and for the other needs of this area and country. I’m glad that spontanaeity is rich in your work. It keeps you from getting too comfortable
Life is better when it’s random. You know, people sometimes wonder why the bible stops where it did, or why we don’t see bible stories anymore. Well, from the words you’ve written here and the tales of your experiences even this early in your adventure, it is clear more than ever that “bible stories” haven’t gone away. They’re being “written” all over the world through the people who are fulfilling God’s will. And even though we’re not writing them down in words(well in your case you are) God is still working his wonders. It breaks my heart to hear of the hurt and burdens these people bear, but even more so that I can’t do anything else but pray about it. Kind of makes me feel useless. But by no means will I stop praying. No sir, I can already tell that some of my prayers for you and your team have been answered. Prayer is powerful, and so is God. And nothing on earth compares to Him. So Adam, go further into Africa and remember all that you’ve encountered so far and the people, like your house mom, who’ve been with you and will be, if only in spirit. You’ve remained in my thoughts nearly every day, as will you in the days and months to come. So enjoy your rest, and always remember one thing: smile
and maybe sing a song once in a while.
Love, Steph
hi mr!
i was so so happy to be able to talk to you on the phone the other day!!! seriously! im not sure what happened with today however, but im sure something important came up, so if i dont talk to you before your next adventure just know that i am praying for you!! and call me when you get back to base!
I MISS YOU FRIEND!
love, alayne
Well once again you amaze me. I know we talk on the phone every once in a while, but to read your words is an absolute blessing. I am not surprised at all that your house mom named you Siabonga “thank you” because of the selfless and giving person that you are. For those of you who read Adams blog I am so thankful for all of you. The letters you write back to him are just as important to him as the blogs he is posting for us. And I know he loves hearing from you.
Although I am Adams dad, its his friends that Adam holds so close to his heart. And I thank you all for your support. Adam said in one of his earlier blogs that he prays that god will mold his heart and his mind into something closer to gods heart and gods mind.
I love that quote. After reading my sons blogs I found myself with a quote also, a quote inspired by my son, its simply, ” If I were 1/10 of the man he is, I’d be 10,000 times the man I am.” Adam you are my true hero and the reason that I want to do something better with my life. I love you, Dad
Adam, you have been a gift in my life for many years. I have had the greatest privilege of watching you grow into the man of God that you have become. I am so happy that the rest of the world is sharing in this privilege. I am not surprised that other mom’s are trying to claim you as their own. I love you and am very, very proud of you.
Praying from you Adam!! I see the beauty of Swaziland in my mind and my heart aches for them. Praying for you to share Jesus well. I know you will.
Love you!
Mike
You should write a book Gulliver! Your very inspiring to all who read so good job keeping up with your blog! I love you dearly!
I love you and miss you alot. Just knowing that there is a great distance between us makes my heart ache !! I cannot wait to hug you !!
Keep pressing toward the mark !!
I love you so much!
Aunt Teri
i am very proud to have such a grandson adam.
i am very proud to have such a grandson adam.i will be praying for you often. i am just so excitied to here how dedicated you are to the lord.it is a very strange feelind knowing you are so far away,but i know your lord and saviour is there with you.cant wait to here from you.i love you adam love grandpa